{"id":21,"date":"2010-04-15T18:26:21","date_gmt":"2010-04-15T23:26:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lostmyhearing.com2010\/04\/15\/can-you-be-deafer\/"},"modified":"2024-02-17T14:24:00","modified_gmt":"2024-02-17T18:24:00","slug":"can-you-be-deafer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/?p=21","title":{"rendered":"Can you be Deafer?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People tend to wonder how someone who&#8217;s deaf can still lose hearing.\u00a0 And why, though the person has no speech understanding, hearing aids help her read lips and she can&#8217;t read well without them.\u00a0 Of course, that person is me.\u00a0 I was telling someone that I&#8217;ve lost more hearing and she couldn&#8217;t understand how you can be deaf and still lose more heairng.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a fair question, but\u00a0when she\u00a0said to me, &#8220;Can you be deafer?&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0I couldn&#8217;t help but laugh.\u00a0 \u00a0I think it was an innocent question &#8211; after all, either you can hear or you can&#8217;t, right?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Well, no, that&#8217;s wrong. Hearing loss and\u00a0sounds are complicated. Sounds are in different frequencies and\u00a0can be heard at different volume levels. You can be profoundly deaf\u00a0and still have a few frequencies with sounds left &#8211; until you don&#8217;t.\u00a0 Which is where I am now. I&#8217;m out of frequencies and decibels.<\/p>\n<p>The bright side is, I can sleep on the runway of an airport and the\u00a0sound of the plane won&#8217;t wake me up. Of course the down side to that is that I&#8217;ll get run over and squished by the plane, but that&#8217;s a whole different ball game.\u00a0\u00a0In reality, sleeping on the runway isn&#8217;t part of my plans.\u00a0 But in reality, I&#8217;m not communicating too well. You can always tell I&#8217;m in trouble when I do a lot of the talking.\u00a0 If I&#8217;m talking, I don&#8217;t have to hear and I don&#8217;t have to suffer through uncomfortable silences.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This time with the new hearing aids\u00a0has been\u00a0interesting.\u00a0 There are moments I think I&#8217;m doing better,\u00a0but overall\u00a0I&#8217;m not.\u00a0 But they have such amazing features, it&#8217;s\u00a0frustrating me terribly\u00a0that they&#8217;re probably not going to work for me.\u00a0 For instance, they have a &#8220;sound recovery&#8221; system.\u00a0 That means they take the sounds and move them\u00a0to the frequencies that do work for you.\u00a0\u00a0 Like playing an instrument in another key!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately I don&#8217;t have the frequencies to put them in so they bounce around and around and they echo.\u00a0 The bad\u00a0part\u00a0of that is I can&#8217;t hear and they drive me crazy. The\u00a0amusing part is that I can sing a duet with myself and it always sounds like I&#8217;m in a crowd!\u00a0\u00a0 Finally I have imaginary friends.\u00a0 I wish they&#8217;d say something different though.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People tend to wonder how someone who&#8217;s deaf can still lose hearing.\u00a0 And why, though the person has no speech understanding, hearing aids help her read lips and she can&#8217;t read well without them.\u00a0 Of course, that person is me.\u00a0 I was telling someone that I&#8217;ve lost more hearing and she couldn&#8217;t understand how you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":468,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions\/468"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lostmyhearing.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}